Chapter 210 Happy Ending?
Lin Weiguo persuaded his mother earnestly. Of course, he would not ignore the existence of his father. He still talked to his father affectionately and rationally, hoping that they could understand his situation and not make too much trouble. Ugly.
Although Mother Lin is very strong, she is also a very traditional woman. She sometimes suppresses Father Lin's voice, but in fact, whenever Father Lin becomes serious or gets angry, Mother Lin will give in.
Lin Weiguo knew very well that the real decision-maker in their family was his father. Although his mother was very strong, she generally obeyed his father's words.
When Mother Lin and Chen Xiangxiu had a conflict and quarrel before, what Father Lin said were also his true thoughts. He indeed felt that it was not good for Mother Lin to be too much towards his daughter-in-law, but in fact, if his daughter-in-law disobeyed Mother Lin, Father Lin would also disapprove of it.
Just like those daughters-in-law back home, doesn't Father Lin know about Mother Lin's teasing and teasing with her daughters-in-law? he knows. He also agreed that mothers-in-law should be dignified and daughters-in-law should obey their parents-in-law unconditionally.
Although Lin Weiguo felt that some of his parents' ideas were different from his own, he also knew that it didn't make sense. It is impossible for him to talk through his parents and ask them to treat their daughter-in-law as well as their own son.
He knew his parents' stubborn ideas and couldn't persuade them. So he could only find another way to let them know the stakes, even if it was just pretending.
He doesn't require his parents to be really good to his daughter-in-law, he just needs her to not get into trouble that gets out of hand.
"Mom and Dad, I know you are not very satisfied with Xiangxiu as your daughter-in-law, but after all, she is the wife that my grandfather has chosen for me. Now she has been given to me. If you don't like her, just ignore her. Don't Would you like to start a fight?" Lin Weiguo begged.
"Our family has caused a lot of jokes to the Family Court during this time. People don't know how to say behind our backs that our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not getting along. The whole Family Court knows about the commotion."
"Mom and Dad, do you really hope that you will be famous in this way?" Lin Weiguo looked at his parents with a serious expression.
"I know, I know, Mom won't quarrel with Chen Xiangxiu." Mother Lin promised.
She still disliked Chen Xiangxiu as her daughter-in-law. Even if she scolded her daughter-in-law in the future, she would not let anyone outside listen to her, as long as she would not quarrel with her.
"Weiguo, don't worry, I will watch and won't let your mother and your wife quarrel." Lin's father also promised his son.
Lin Weiguo nodded. Since his parents had agreed, he would temporarily believe that his parents could keep their word.
The main reason is that he hopes that his parents will consider that if his future is affected, their treatment will definitely not be good. And he also knows that his parents want to save face, and now that they have realized what they are doing, they probably won’t let outsiders laugh at them.
Mother Lin was only encouraged to go outside Chen Yong's house and call Chen Xiangxiu that day. It was just once. She could still explain to outsiders that her relationship with her daughter-in-law was not that bad.
Mother Lin didn't go to take Chen Xiangxiu home in person. She really didn't have a good relationship with her daughter-in-law. Of course, she couldn't say that she just went to pick up her daughter-in-law and tell others about her relationship with her daughter-in-law just to avoid being laughed at. How intimate.
Anyway, she didn't intend to explain the bad relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as long as she didn't cause any trouble in the future and make others laugh.
Chen Xiangxiu was taken back by Lin Weiguo. He also knew that his mother and daughter-in-law had very different ideas, and he did not insist that they get along harmoniously and harmoniously.
"Sorry Xiangxiu, I know my parents made you angry after they came over. But there is nothing I can do. They are my parents after all, and I can't do anything to them." Lin Weiguo said apologetically.
After all, it was his parents who gave birth to him and raised him for more than ten years. After he joined the army, his parents didn't really take back all their feelings for him, so he couldn't do anything to his parents just because Chen Xiangxiu was wronged. What makes her angry?
"I know." Chen Xiangxiu understood Lin Weiguo's approach. Although she was a little aggrieved, she understood what he couldn't do at this time.
Isn't it terrible for a man to do something bad to his parents just for the sake of his newly married wife? A man dares to do anything to his own parents. Aren't you afraid that he will do to you what he once did to your parents?
If it were Chen Xiangxiu herself, of course she would choose her parents' side. Her parents who have doted on her for so many years and her newly married husband, of course she chose her parents instead of her husband.
"Don't worry, I've made an agreement with my parents. It doesn't need to be so close and harmonious for you to get along. It doesn't matter even if it's cold and indifferent, as long as you don't quarrel." Lin Weiguo said.
"Anyway, you have to go out every day and don't spend much time with my parents. As long as we don't quarrel, it'll be fine, right?" Lin Weiguo said, "My parents will stay for a few months until the snow melts in my hometown. They are going back."
"Sorry, I have wronged you." Lin Weiguo apologized sincerely.
"It doesn't matter." Chen Xiangxiu said, "As long as you don't let me feel wronged all the time and have to please my parents who keep picking on me."
"You did a great job." Chen Xiangxiu said sincerely.
She really felt that Lin Weiguo had done a good job. She had seen many men who basically sided with their mother unconditionally when facing a battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Both mother and son criticized their daughter-in-law's faults.
Lin Weiguo was able to appease his mother and apologize to Chen Xiangxiu. Both sides were appeased by her. This is a good approach.
Chen Xiangxiu moved back home after Lin Weiguo came to pick her up. After all, she and Lin Weiguo were newly married, and it was not good to be separated for too long.
After she returned home, Lin's father and mother were also indifferent to her, but at least they would not say anything sarcastic about her, let alone criticize her for everything.
Chen Xiangxiu was quite satisfied with the current way of getting along. After all, she had experienced all kinds of nitpicking and finding faults from her mother-in-law before. Now she feels that this life is not sarcastic, sarcastic, and not targeting her everywhere. She really feels very good.
After Chen Xiangxiu moved back home, although Lin's father and mother sometimes disliked her, they only said a few words. Chen Xiangxiu would refute a few words, but they would not quarrel like at the beginning, and then give outsiders the opportunity to watch the fun.
Chen Xiangxiu is very satisfied with the current relationship. After all, she has been worried since she learned from her mother about how Lin's mother treated her daughters-in-law. Now that Lin's mother has restrained herself, she is relieved.
"It seems that your husband is not the kind of person who completely walks away." After listening to Chen Xiangxiu's narration, Chen Wenjiu couldn't help but give Lin Weiguo a thumbs up.
Although he did not perfectly resolve the conflict between Chen Xiangxiu and Lin's mother, at least he did not let the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law deteriorate, nor did he make the matter bigger and make more people laugh at it.
Although Chen Wenjiu has no emotional experience, let alone marriage experience, she has seen countless Amway. She has seen various mother-in-law and daughter-in-law wars on TV, on the Internet, and around her.
For example, her cousin has a cousin. Of course, her cousin is not Chen Jialing. Although Chen Jialing is divorced, it has nothing to do with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's just because the couple got married in love at the beginning, and then there were all kinds of conflicts after the relationship cooled down. They really couldn't live together and divorced.
Another cousin of Chen Wenjiu actually married someone from the same village, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is almost the same as on TV.
This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious at ordinary times. They usually live their own lives and don't bother each other, but they will quarrel from time to time.
When Chen Wenjiu listens to her grandmother and aunt's gossip or Chen Jialing's complaints, she will know that this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a big quarrel every year, the kind of quarrel that half of the village can hear.
Anyway, this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel every year, and then the mother-in-law cries and says that the daughter-in-law is not filial to her and treats her badly, and she wants to drink pesticides. The daughter-in-law also cries and says that the mother-in-law doesn't like her in every way, and makes trouble for her everywhere, and threatens her with drinking pesticides.
The relationship between this cousin of Chen Wenjiu and her mother-in-law is real. It's best not to get together at ordinary times, as long as they get together, they will quarrel.
Of course, because she and her mother-in-law don't live together, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't live under the same roof, so it's impossible for them to quarrel and fight every day.
Moreover, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live far from each other, at least more than 100 meters apart, so they can avoid each other when they want to.
There are several mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships in the village. Although they are not as incompatible as Chen Wenjiu's cousin, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will complain about the mother-in-law/daughter-in-law behind their backs.
In the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man who is the son/husband rarely appears, and it seems that there are not many of them. Chen Wenjiu's cousin's husband is similar. He is not there every time the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel. Anyway, in Chen Jialing's complaints, he rarely comes out to persuade and stop the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when they quarrel.
There are also the male protagonists in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war in TV dramas. They basically speak for their own mothers, criticize their wives for being bad, and criticize their wives for being disrespectful, unfilial and disobedient to their mother-in-law.
This kind of TV drama will make people's blood pressure soar every time they watch it. Fortunately, Chen Wenjiu doesn't like to watch this kind of TV drama - but who makes her aunt, her other aunts, aunts and other middle-aged women like to watch it?
When others watch this kind of family dramas about family affairs, all kinds of extreme fights, and all kinds of messy family ethics, she will see or hear some dialogues. Every time she sees or hears it, she feels that if she lives in such an environment, she will go crazy.
And those dramas basically have a happy ending. No matter how fierce the fight between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sisters-in-law, and sisters-in-law is, there must be a happy ending in the end.
Of course, the relationship between Chen Xiangxiu and her mother-in-law Lin Mu is also an alternative "happy ending", but Lin Weiguo can appease both parties, which also shows that he is not that kind of useless scumbag.
"Although Lin Weiguo has some relatives who are annoying, fortunately he can solve them." Nie Zhenzhen patted Chen Xiangxiu on the shoulder and said, "In the future, if the people from the Lin family bully you, don't do anything more, let Lin Weiguo do it."
"If he can't even protect his own wife, why would he marry a wife?" Nie Zhenzhen said.
"Yes." Chen Xiangxiu nodded to indicate that she had remembered it. She would not be easily bullied. If anyone from the Lin family wanted to bully her in the future, she would let Lin Weiguo handle it and let him make a satisfactory result for her.
Although it is the third update today, it has 10,000 words.