Chapter 221 Like-Minded

After Chen Wenjiu learned about Yan Chenchen's experience, she sympathized with her. She had been introduced to someone before, but she quickly reached an agreement with He Zui and became nominal boyfriend and girlfriend. Since then, there has been nothing. Disturbing her.

Of course, she was not as suffocated by Yan Chenchen when she went to the county town before and was chased when she came home, saying that He Zui was not a match for her and asked her to find another boyfriend.

After all, her relatives and friends who were close to her all knew about her relationship with He Zui, and knew that she had a very handsome and excellent boyfriend, so they would not think of introducing her to anyone else.

Of course, she is only 22 years old. Even if she has a boyfriend, her relatives will not force her to get married early. Although they like to introduce partners to their relatives when they have nothing to do, they will not force them to do so. Only willing to get married.

Chen Wenjiu had never experienced anything like Yan Chenchen, but she could feel that Yan Chenchen was really agitated, and she really wanted to escape from that suffocating feeling.

She didn't like that man herself, but the relatives and friends around her insisted on pairing her up with him. How could she not be suffocated in such an environment?

"I have been in a situation like yours." Chen Jialing, who rarely came over to enjoy a delicious meal, sat down next to Yan Chenchen. She looked at Yan Chenchen apologetically and said, "Sorry, I accidentally overheard what you said. This Madam, can I share a table with you?"

Chen Jialing still had the fresh milk strawberry cake, courage pudding, salted egg yolk meat dumplings and other food in her hand. She was just looking for a place to enjoy the food, when she saw Chen Wenjiu and Yan Chenchen chatting, and accidentally heard Yan Chen had morning sickness. The bitter water.

"It's okay, you sit down." Yan Chenchen didn't care about this. Now that Chen Jialing heard what she and Chen Wenjiu were talking about, and said that she had a similar experience, Yan Chenchen became even more curious.

"Sister, have you also had an experience like Miss Yan?" Chen Wenjiu looked at his cousin curiously and asked.

Didn't her cousin get married early just after graduating from college? Why is there such an experience as Yan Chenchen, who was introduced to someone by the people around him and still had to gather them into a group?

"Yes, you don't know that I have been divorced for several years. Some people think that I am worthless after divorce, so they insist on introducing me to some people I don't like." Chen Jialing said, "Although I am a bit fat, before I’m not very good at skin care, I’ve been married and divorced, and I have a child, but do I have to lower my standards for choosing a spouse?”

"Anyway, some people think it's outrageous for me to go back to my parents' house after my divorce, so they insist on introducing me to someone. For example, my aunt, when she came to my house before, she said she would introduce someone to me, but I didn't see anyone. After that, she said that she would take me back, and according to her wish, I could live in her home directly. "

"My aunt never thought about whether I would fall in love with that man, or maybe he would fall in love with me? We both still don't like each other. My aunt really didn't feel embarrassed by taking me there directly. "?" Chen Jialing frowned.

"Of course my aunt just said it, and she didn't tell me but my parents. She never bothered me." Chen Jialing said, "There are also some people, like the person my eldest aunt married later. He also said that he would introduce someone to me, and it was really outrageous to say that I was cheating on my mother’s family.”

Chen Wenjiu: "...You didn't live in your parents' home, right?"

Although Chen Jialing doesn't work in the fields much now, she can still do housework at home, such as cleaning, cooking, washing clothes, etc. Of course, now there is a washing machine for washing clothes, so she can do it more easily.

But except for the fact that she can't get up for breakfast, she often cooks at noon and evening, so it's not like she doesn't do anything.

The most important thing is that Chen Jialing has made some money writing novels now, and has an income of several thousand every month. In addition to saving her income, she also gives some to her mother, so she is not just sitting on her old age.

"Those people think that if I stay at home and don't have a formal job and don't go out to do farm work, then isn't that just cheating on me? They may think that I can't support myself by writing novels like this." Chen Jialing said, "But what they think That’s right, in the first few years when I started writing novels, I really couldn’t support myself, so I relied on my family to support me.”

It was only in the past few years that she gradually became good at writing, and her income gradually increased. At the beginning, her income of 500 yuan for half a year was considered too much.

"Because I'm divorced, some people think it's extremely sinful to be single? Just want to introduce me to a partner, and who in the village? That guy Wang Mingqiang is always said by people around him that he wants to become my dad's son-in-law, and even interviews When talking to my son, those people would ask my son to call him daddy." Chen Jialing couldn't help rolling her eyes when she said this.

"It's not like my son doesn't have a biological father. Although I divorced that guy, he is still my son's biological father. And I have never had any emotional entanglements with that guy Wang Mingqiang, but whether it is my cousin or the others, Cousin and the others are all saying that Wang Mingqiang is my man."

"They may be joking, but I really don't like this kind of joke." Chen Jialing said, "I didn't like Wang Mingqiang before, but I just don't like it now."

"The most important thing is that I control my appearance. Wang Mingqiang is not as good-looking as my ex-husband. Now I don't even like someone as good-looking as my ex-husband, who actually has no problems with his character. Why should I settle for the second best and like Wang Mingqiang?"

"Yes, yes, I understand your feelings very well." Yan Chenchen nodded in agreement after hearing what Chen Jialing said, "My ex-boyfriends are all very good-looking. Although they are not as good-looking as celebrities, they are also above average in appearance. Li Zheyuan is far worse than my ex-boyfriend."

"I just don't understand. Li Zheyuan is not as good-looking as my ex-boyfriend. I don't see any other advantages in him that allow me to ignore his appearance and figure. Why do those people think that I will definitely agree to be with Li Zheyuan."

"I don't have to judge people by appearance, but face control really has very strict requirements for the appearance of lovers." Yan Chenchen said distressedly, "You know, the reason why my last boyfriend was with me We broke up because I felt that his figure was out of shape, so I felt that I didn't like him that much anymore. "

"Wow, your ex-boyfriend's figure is out of shape?" Chen Jialing asked curiously, "He used to have a good figure, right?"

"Of course, although my ex-boyfriend didn't have eight abdominal muscles, he had four." Yan Chenchen said proudly, but she soon became less proud, "After he and I were together for more than a year, his abdominal muscles disappeared and he grew a small belly."

"He was out of shape, and although I was a little disgusted with him, I didn't break up. Later, when we continued to get along, we found that we didn't have the same feelings for each other as when we were in love at the beginning, so we broke up peacefully." Yan Chenchen shrugged.

"My ex-husband is similar." Chen Jialing said, "When I was with him, he was thinner. Later, he gradually developed some muscles and looked less eye-catching. But after a few years of marriage, he gained weight."

"Let me tell you, I am still very strict about boys' bodies. For a while, I looked at people's arms to see if they had muscles on their arms. If their arms were thinner than mine, I basically didn't care about their faces." Chen Jialing said.

"Is it so exaggerated? If they don't have muscles, you don't care if their faces are good-looking?" Yan Chenchen asked with a smile.

"Yes." Chen Jialing nodded very frankly, "Even if the boy's face is good-looking, if he is much thinner than me, I will not like him and don't want to look at him more."

"I was not as fat as I am now, and my arms were not as thick as they are now. In this case, if the other person's arms are not as thick as mine, I really doubt whether he is as strong as me." Chen Jialing said with a smile.

"I still like boys with a little muscle, but not too exaggerated. I don't like the muscular look either. I like the natural strong body, like the men in the hotel security team, who are very handsome."

"I don't like those who are too thin." Chen Jialing said.

"Add one." Yan Chenchen said enthusiastically, "Boys are better if they are taller and a little stronger. I don't like boys who are thinner than me or look weaker than me."

Yan Chenchen's personality is indeed a bit strong, but she doesn't like the pairing of strong women and weak men. Perhaps it's because she doesn't have the idea of ​​a heroine. She likes men who look stronger than her or as strong as her. She likes a strong and evenly matched relationship, not a strong woman and a weak man.

She won't be interested in boys who are weaker than her.

"Speaking of which, sister, do you like boys who are younger than you?" Yan Chenchen asked curiously. She now feels that she and Chen Jialing have something in common and really want to have a good chat with her.

"I didn't like them before, or I don't like underage boys. I can accept those who are 20 years old or younger than me." Chen Jialing said, "Of course, although they are younger than me, they should not look too weak."

"So you like little wolf dogs instead of little milk dogs?" Yan Chenchen said.

"I think so?" Chen Jialing said.

"Sister, let me tell you..."

Chen Wenjiu, who originally listened to Yan Chenchen's complaints, now tilted her head in confusion as she watched her cousin and Yan Chenchen chatting very well.

Didn't her cousin say that she had some social barriers because she stayed at home for too long? She was almost evolving into a social phobia, so why is she chatting with Yan Chenchen so well now?

Didn't you say that you dare not talk to strangers? Didn't you say that you want to quickly end the topic and escape when chatting with others?

Why do you get along so well with Yan Chenchen now? From the original complaints about the troubles of putting people you don't like against you, to the men's looks, good figures, etc., now you are talking about whether you like little wolf dogs or little milk dogs.

However, seeing the two of them chatting so happily, Chen Wenjiu did not disturb them and continued to eat his ice cream with Chen Momo.