Chapter 1473 1593, Treating the Symptoms but Not the Root Cause
The sound of smoking over there was a little obvious, I think they were trying hard.
"It's actually quite tiring to chase someone alone. It's not that I haven't thought about letting go... but I can't let her go. Thinking about her past experiences makes me feel distressed. I can't sleep all night... I just want to pamper her well, why is it so difficult?"
Shu Xin raised her eyes and looked at Mu Ningjing. Her thin back was shaking slightly, which was a sign of holding back crying. "Troublesome things require both your willingness and your will. Since she doesn't want you to pamper her, then don't pamper her. Let go, and you and her will feel comfortable."
Mu Ningjing turned around suddenly, looking at Shu Xin's eyes full of tears and disbelief.
Shu Xin pretended not to understand Mu Ningjing's eyes and shrugged innocently.
Mu Ningjing shook her head with tears, her lips opened and closed, but no sound came out. Judging from her lip shape, she was saying: No.
The other end didn't seem to expect Shu Xin to say that. After a long silence, he spoke, "Sister-in-law, I won't let go. I will cling to her for the rest of my life. If it doesn't work, I will force her to stay by my side in my own way."
Shu Xin could probably guess what Shen Tingxi meant by force, "You will only get further and further away from her."
"If I can only choose to leave her or imprison her, I will choose the latter."
Shen Tingxi's love is overbearing and strong. Shu Xin didn't know how to respond for a while. She looked at Mu Ningjing with a headache and found that she was staring at the phone on the table, with joy and fear in her eyes.
Seeing that Shuxin didn't say anything, the other end continued: "Sister-in-law, you go ahead and do your work. It will take a few days for me to come back. Please take care of Ningning during this time."
"Well, don't worry."
After hanging up the phone, Shuxin folded her hands on the table, looked at Mu Ningjing and asked: "Do you still want to break up?"
Mu Ningjing pursed her lips and shook her head. In fact, after talking with Dr. Qin, she knew that she was not as bad as she thought, and she also had advantages and was worthy of being liked by others. At that time, she changed her mind, but her will was not firm enough.
It's like a balance. The weight of not breaking up is slightly heavier. Perhaps a 'gust of wind' will blow, and the balance will lean towards the end of breaking up. It is greatly affected by the outside world and extremely unstable.
But after listening to Shen Tingxi's words today, the balance in Mu Ningjing's heart has completely leaned towards the end of not breaking up.
Shen Tingxi's love is a bit paranoid and strong, but for Mu Ningjing, who is seriously lacking in security and self-confidence, this is tantamount to a shot of cardiotonic, which makes her calm down instantly.
Shu Xin looked at Mu Ningjing and remembered what the psychologist said when she talked to the doctor about Mu Ningjing's situation. Maybe the doctor was right. In Mu Ningjing's situation, she couldn't just retreat. She needed to analyze the real situation to her, let her see it, let her face it, instead of just avoiding it.
Shu Xin got up and pulled Mu Ningjing to sit on the sofa not far away, "Ningning, you know Shen Tingxi's identity. It's easy for a man like him to want a woman. Even without his handshake, a glance will make a woman climb onto his bed.
You also heard what he said just now. He said he was tired. Maybe he's not tired enough now, so he can still chase you. What if one day he is exhausted and really decides to let you go, don't you regret it?"
Mu Ningjing cried and shook her head, "No, I can't let go."
"Then you should try to accept him. I know that the past has caused you too much harm, but Shen Tingxi is not Lu Zhiwen. He is not, you have to remember it deeply This point.
He touches you, not to hurt you, on the contrary, to show you his love, to let you experience his love for you personally. Maybe I am too vulgar, but the combination of spirit and body is the highest realm of love.
You have to face your problems bravely. Didn't I give you a business card of a psychiatrist before? Go to him and see, he is very authoritative in this regard, you go and try to untie your knot, if it doesn't work once, try twice, if it doesn't work twice, try three times, and one day you will succeed. "
Mu Ningjing lowered her eyes, silently crying, and said softly: "I called him."
Shu Xin was very surprised, "Really?"
Mu Ningjing nodded.
"Then do you think his treatment is effective for you?" Shu Xin asked impatiently.
Mu Ningjing pursed her lips, "I didn't see him, I just contacted him by phone, the effect..."
"How is it?" Shu Xin asked nervously.
Mu Ningjing nodded. Every time she chatted with Dr. Qin, she felt very relaxed, and after chatting, she would feel that what he said made sense, but when she really encountered something, she forgot everything.
Always treating the symptoms but not the root cause.
Shu Xin was happy for Mu Ningjing from the bottom of her heart. Mu Ningjing was willing to take the initiative to find a psychiatrist, which showed that she was also working hard for this relationship and wanted to change the status quo. This was a very good start.
Shu Xin wanted to let Mu Ningjing meet with a psychiatrist. Face-to-face treatment would definitely be more effective, but she was afraid of scaring her. She thought that she should encourage her more now and clenched her fist, "Come on, you are the best."
Mu Ningjing nodded embarrassedly, and then she remembered something and said to Shu Xin, "Don't tell anyone about my doctor visit. Tingxi can't do it, and Mr. Huo can't do it either."
Shu Xin nodded, threw a coquettish eye at Mu Ningjing, and deliberately said in an ambiguous tone, "This is our secret."
After get off work, Mu Ningjing went home and accidentally saw Mu Yiqing downstairs in the unit. She was surprised and said, "Mayor..."
"Huh?" Mu Yiqing deliberately frowned.
Mu Ningjing reacted and called out in a sweet voice, "Uncle Mu."
Mu Yiqing smiled instantly, raised several take-away bags with the Yuhelou logo in his hand, and asked in a gentle tone: "Would you like to have dinner with uncle?"
Mu Ningjing was a little flattered. Although Mu Yiqing said in the morning that he would take care of her in the future, she really didn't dare to expect much care from him. After all, in the true sense, they were not related.
Seeing that Mu Ningjing didn't speak, Mu Yiqing's warm eyes were stained with a touch of loss, "Don't you want to? I was too abrupt..."
"No, I do." Mu Ningjing curled her lips slightly.
Mu Yiqing saw the two dimples on Mu Ningjing's face, and was distracted for a moment, then smiled and went upstairs with Mu Ningjing.
The food was served on the table, and Mu Yiqing had a smile on his face all the time. He was completely different from the mayor character that Mu Ningjing met for the first time. He was serious and indifferent before, but now he was gentle and approachable.
"I ordered a few dishes casually. I wonder if they suit your taste?"
Mu Ningjing looked at the dishes that almost filled the entire table, and pulled the corners of her lips awkwardly. How many dishes are there? "I'm not picky."
After the two of them finished their meal, there were still a lot of dishes left. The dishes at Yuhelou were notoriously expensive. Mu Ningjing didn't want Mu Yiqing to spend money like this, so she said, "Uncle Mu, don't go to Yuhelou to take away food in the future. It's too expensive. If you want, I can cook it for you at home."