Chapter 148 No Matter How Hard I Try, I Can’t Blend In

The man in that family will not have any more children because he has hurt his descendants. He only has one sick daughter in the family. He doesn’t want his daughter to marry into someone else’s family and suffer the consequences, and he also doesn’t want the family to be cut off. He wants to raise one at home as soon as possible. Let the two children spend more time together, so that when the couple is no longer together, someone will be able to take care of the daughter.

At that time, no matter how much I begged, my grandma would not let go.

Just when he was about to be taken away by the couple, his cousin in the next room came back to visit relatives. He stopped them and chatted privately with grandma for a long time. Grandma relaxed and was not taken away by that couple. The couple took them away.

Later, my cousin saw him as pitiful and was afraid that after the family left, her grandma would send him as a child as a son-in-law, so she begged her cousin and uncle to take her away with her.

My cousin and cousin-in-law didn't agree at first, but they couldn't bear the cousin's constant fuss, so they finally agreed.

It was only later that I found out that the reason why grandma agreed to let him leave with his cousin's family was because his cousin and cousin gave grandma and them thirty yuan. However, the cousin was smart and was afraid of future troubles, so he asked the village chief to witness the signature. I got a certificate to save my grandma from having to pay for it in the future.

The certificate says that it is up to you to decide whether you will come back when you grow up. If you don't come back, the thirty yuan will be used as a gift for your child. If you want to come back, your family will not be able to make any excuses not to accept it. In this way It is most beneficial to the little self.

The reason why the cousin took him away was because their eldest son was lost due to the war, while the second son fell into the water and drowned because his mother failed to take good care of him. The cousin also suffered mentally because of the loss of the two sons. After being traumatized, you will get sick from time to time.

I thought it might be good for my cousin to take this nephew with me.

In this way, I left home with my cousin and cousin's family, and returned to live with the Shen family in Beijing.

At first, the Shen family elders and the other families disagreed, but the cousin insisted, and also said that when the eldest son was lost, several cousins ​​took him out, but they did not bring him back, but the second son was from his own family. I didn't take care of the person who fell into the water.

When the Shen family saw the third child settling old scores, no one dared to speak out against him because they were indeed in the wrong.

He stayed in the Shen family, but the good times didn't last long. When he was seventeen, his cousin and his uncle had an accident while trying to save equipment in the factory. The Shen family didn't want to raise an outsider, so he returned to He He. Home.

Back at the He family, the grandma who didn't want to see me back then has been laid to rest. My parents felt that they were sorry for me, so they were pretty good to me, but they hadn't lived together for ten years, and they only came back once in the middle. So what? I always feel like there is a layer between us.

After staying at home for less than a year, he found an opportunity and joined the army.

After joining the army, although he still had contact with his family, his relationship was very ordinary. After six years in the army, he only went back home twice, and he only stayed for a few days before leaving.

I really feel a little incompatible with that family, and no matter how hard I try, I can't fit in.

Later, I retired due to injury and went to work in a machinery factory. I would always take one day a month to go back, just like going through the motions. The only good thing was that I didn't have to pay home.

It's not that I don't pay, but that after the eldest brother and the second brother got married, they only paid living expenses. My parents were really embarrassed to ask him, who didn't live at home, to pay to support the family.