Chapter 2699 There Is No Rule without Rules

But when the adult first saw the child and didn't understand it, the adult watched from the side and let the child play by himself.

Then let him put his hand on the flame and burn it, or if he touches it, he will be burned.

Then he knows that this thing cannot be played with, will hurt, and is dangerous. Next time he sees this thing, he will naturally form a mentality in his heart that this thing is dangerous and cannot be played with.

In this way, the children themselves can understand what can be played with and what cannot be played with.

Faced with such a thing, don't parents feel more at ease?

After all, now that children understand what danger is, isn't it much better than adults simply putting away lighters?

Qin Xue also saw a child before. He wanted to play with a knife, but his parents didn't let him play with it, saying that it was very sharp and would hurt him. But the child didn't believe it and insisted on playing with it.

As his father, he knew that the child would not give up without playing with it, so he watched him play with it.

Later, when the child saw his father giving him a knife, he happily played with it and used it to sharpen a stick. As a result, his hand was accidentally cut and bled. From then on, the child never played with a knife again.

Qin Xue also asked the father at that time why he let his children play with knives even though he knew they were dangerous.

The father answered her at that time. He said: Children are an untapped treasure. We don’t know what kind of thoughts they have in their hearts.

And we have also grown up, and everyone has a yearning for the unknown in our hearts, wanting to try and understand.

If we cannot satisfy their curiosity and think that adults don't want them to do that, so we don't let them play, with this mentality, they will try their best to explore.

At that time, there are no adults around, and when something happens, it will be regrettable, so I would rather watch him from the side, see him injured, and then bandage him, so that he knows that I am not It's for his own good to let him play, so that if I tell him it's dangerous in the future, he will listen.

Because I said it was dangerous before, but he didn't listen. After trying it himself, he knew it was true, so he naturally listened.

After listening to what the father said, Qin Xue thought about it for a long time and felt that it was so right. Children are just a blank sheet of paper. It depends on how adults guide them. If they are guided well, it is inevitable that the children will become successful in the future.

On the contrary, if adults don’t have rules, then children will definitely not grow up in a good way. This means that nothing can happen without rules. This shows how important it is to set rules and let children follow them from an early age.

So when she saw the accommodation provided by Yu Xiu and others, Qin Xue felt that they had done a good job in this regard.

It doesn't mean that because the home is too small, letting the children who have gradually become wiser to live with them all the time will have a different psychological impact on them.

As parents, when dealing with some things, you adopt an avoidant attitude. Then when your children are young, they will secretly find ways to find answers. When they grow up, they will definitely not think about confronting them directly. , will also adopt an evasive attitude, there is no doubt about this.

Therefore, Qin Xue has never thought about asking their children to do anything different. Because she is here, how could she let them do that? At worst, she just made it clear. If you don't understand now, it doesn't mean you won't understand in the future. Isn't it? There will always be a time when you understand.